this might be a super stupid question but I'm trying to find the end portal but when i throw my eye of ender it teleports me. how do you find the end portal or the end dungeon?
That means your throwing an ender pearl an eye of ender is where you've combined an ender pearl with blaze powder.
Also don't forget to ask around in town chat as well. Often some players get carried away once finding such a portal and make an obvious and easy to use entrance. Not all the time of course