It isn't about what people think about me. It is about me wanting to make up for things that I have done that I can repay or fix.
well, i have never met you before but i just clicked that link to see what would happen and... (no seriously, this really happened)
Correction: Treat others 20% better than you would want them to treat you, to correct for any subjective error.
I know and I try to do my best at that, but some things I can't help and they may annoy people. I am trying to learn what people find annoying and fix it.