Comments on Profile Post by SoulPunisher

  1. Krysyy
    Krysyy
    Everyone does at some point. I'm currently in a stalemate with someone I care about because of the same thing. Though I don't actually regret mine, yet.
    Apr 3, 2018
  2. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    Yeah. Mine was just... she hasn't talked to me since Monday last week and suddenly had some massive mood change that hasn't stopped yet, and I got mad that after all the 'I love yous' and 'I need you here' she's given me over the last month over the phone she can just do this.
    Apr 3, 2018
  3. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    And before she told her best friend that she's mad I'm not getting mad at her? Which got me mad and made me write that and cause an argument that went nowhere besides "I want some space so give me some space"

    I hate her sometimes lol
    Apr 3, 2018
  4. JDHallows
    JDHallows
    A relationship isn't just about the love and happiness. A true test of any relationship is an argument like this, because if it makes it out the other side, both sides are stronger because of it. If the relationship fails, then unfortunately it likely would have never worked anyways. Good luck to you though!
    Apr 3, 2018
  5. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    Yeah, I hear you.

    We had a fight. Probably the biggest we've ever had. Left it at "I'm going to sleep, goodnight" and her trying to bait me back in to responding when she noticed I left her "fine go to sleep then you idiot" message on read 20 minutes after she'd sent it. Her friend told me to just leave her alone for a few days and she'll probably be fine.
    Apr 3, 2018
  6. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    However, I have since got her friend to order my birthday present for her and I sent her a snap after I'd stood in my dog's pee as a way of saying 'karma got me'. I also responded to an Instagram DM she sent me yesterday that I only just got the notification for.

    There's a panic attack in which I, for some reason, started praying while crying despite being an atheist, wedged in between here.
    Apr 3, 2018
  7. JDHallows
    JDHallows
    Sounds like a true test of the relationship to me :P Just make sure that if the opportunity to resolve the argument arises, you actually resolve it and don't just "sweep it under the rug." If you guys don't actually work through the problem, they will just come back again later, except worse.
    Apr 4, 2018
  8. JDHallows
    JDHallows
    As for the praying, that reminds me of the song "Pray" by Sam Smith. There is this belief that prayer isn't just something we're taught, but something that is actually just part of human nature. Thus the line in his song, "Everyone prays in the end"
    Apr 4, 2018
  9. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    That makes sense. It's a great release and a great comfort mechanism. I guess that's a plausible explanation as to why people achieve clarity at the end of it (the whole 'God listened to me' thing).

    And yeah, I'm up for resolving it. Absolutely. I want nothing more. It would help if she stopped ghosting me and grew the Hell up for just a minute, though.
    Apr 4, 2018
  10. MoreMoople
    MoreMoople
    I wish I had advice to give you here, but I admit that I don't. I do wish you luck though, and hope that it all resolves alright! =)
    Apr 4, 2018
  11. SoulPunisher
    SoulPunisher
    Thank you. I hope for the same.
    Apr 4, 2018
  12. We3_MPO
    We3_MPO
    I hope it works out alright, and if it doesn't, I hope you can find someone better.
    Apr 5, 2018