I need help.

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous' started by Sanargama, Sep 17, 2012.

  1. Hello guys, I have a big problem and I don't know what to do.

    It all started in 5th course of primary school. I began to have problems with my friends, and I ended with no friends. Then (don't ask why, please) they upgraded me one course, so I passed from 5th to 1st of secondary. 1st of secondary was great, I made friends and everything, but in 2nd *something* happened and I got depressed. I began to think a lot of sad things, had anxiety attacks, went to the psychologist... 3rd of secondary was horrible. I didn't know who was my real friend, who to trust... I was completely paranoid, in fact. My friends asked me to stay far from them at the break at the end of the course. Now I am in 4th and I feel like if I didn't have any friends, although one of my friends says he is truly my friend. I'm beggining to believe that it is my fault, that I'm doing something terribly wrong, but I can't be sure of anything. I think I'm going to get depressed again. But I don't want to.
    I need help.
    Sorry if I was too selfish.
  2. Give it time. Things will work out.
  3. It is better to have 1-2 great friends who know you better than everyone than 100 friends who you don't even know good. ;)
  4. Is it good to have 0 friends?
  5. But you said you got one friend?
  6. Sounds to me like your old friends are the ones really at a loss. Friendships are dynamic. They never stay the same for long. People move away, start hanging out with other people, etc and leave old friends behind. The only thing you can do is know that it isn't really your fault unless you have wronged your friends in some way that you have not mentioned. As for the depression part, don't feel alone. Everyone, at one time or another, experiences anxiety and depression. We wouldn't be humans if we didn't.

    Personally, out of my friends from high school, I speak with almost none. My best friend moved across the country and the others floated around the state, got into groups of their own and stopped speaking to me. That's all fine and dandy though because you make new friends everywhere you go. I have made some very good friends through the EMC community and continue to expand that list. Just know you've got a friend in me. Soy tu amigo. :D

    p.s. sry that toy story reference just kinda slipped out...
  7. Maybe. I don't know.
  8. Nothing is wrong with you if God (If you believe in who ever) wants you to be like that for a purpose and normally good ;) so just think good and happy and life will get better
  9. lawl
  10. What? Lol
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  11. Chascarrillo, no es tu culpa! Dicen que los mejores amigos se hacen en la universidad y te los quedas para siempre. Claramente no estas en la uní, pero cosas van cambiando. Si ellos no quieren ser tus amigos, pues dejalos. Y para de ir por ayuda. No hay nada malo de ti. Eres un niño normal y corriente. Ya encontraras mejores amigos. Tengo fe en ti! Y venga, hombre, tienes cuarenta mil amigos aquí!
  12. Do u live in England? Or Europe idk what primary is I like elementary middle and high simple and easy
  13. Spain
  14. Well this happened to me when I was 9. (I have no idea what age you are (don't no anything about the school system in your year))

    Every time I moved up a year I was in another class to all my existing friends :( But I made new ones (No idea how). I then got lucky and two years in a row ended up in the same class as my Budds.
    I feel that things will work out as long as you keep on top of your feelings.
    I go to a chiropractor and that helps me with lots of emotional and physical problems (eg. sore back)
  15. nice save
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  16. It is not your fault, people can be jerks some times, maybe one of your "friends" didn't like you, so the others followed him. But their just being jerks( I know this from personal experience where I was ignoring my friend) if they don't like you enough to stand up for you then you should find new friend. But remember it is NOT YOUR FAULT
  17. i thought you were going to ask someone to send you rupees

    but since you're having a real life problem, my suggestion is to talk to your parents... i know it may suck but your family will always be there for you. if they aren't then ignore this advice :)
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  18. Remember Bill gates?
    bill was very lonly for his school period. Howewer,he turmed to the computer and created windows which made him a billionsaire later.:)
    To google Java noob is a good start ;)
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  19. he didnt create windows he made something to make money then brought the company Windows because windows was the first mouse user operating system