When I was in high school I was in some relationships on this server that I should not have been with a man who knew my age and didn't care. To me I thought he was "woke" not to care about my age, not realizing that he was a predator and taking advantage of me. It's so easy to tell yourself that you are mature enough for these types of conversations or connections but please remember that you are still a kid <3
You deserve protection from those who want to hurt you or want things from you that require you to give up part of yourself to have. I know there are other now 20-something girls from emc who are having similar realizations about their intern use when they were younger and I want to help stop the cycle.
I am not on EMC or forums often, but I do regularly check discord. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me to talk things through or for advice, I am here for you <33 This is a safe, judgement free zone. My discord is rhxa#0910
And to the now likely 30 something year old who thought a 15 year old was an appropriate object for his affection: your username suits you <3 go back to... ahem... the nether
And if you had certain experiences with a player associated with dice or green cats, please reach out as well. You are not alone.
I do ask that this status remain up by EMC admin as this is an important message I wish I had seen when I was younger. It's too late for me, but it's not for everyone. EMC's community is aging, and it's important to keep the younger ones safe.
I also think that it's an important message, and I thank you for sharing it and am sorry that this happened to you, but I think comments 4 and 5 should be amended, as it is unhealthy for community members to wonder about who the people concerned (besides yourself) are.
I would like to say that I firmly believe that adults and kids can enjoy friendship. I have experienced this from both sides on EMC, all the way up to meeting IRL. However, if you notice you feel more for the person than warranted from a friendship, or wánt more from the person... reduce contact, espécially if you are on the older side of the relationship. [contd.]
I am taking my power back and turning the tables, this addressing said person on *my* page ;) Staying quiet about this sort of thing is exactly how it continues and as a previous active member, I want others to know that I struggled with this. If you have any concerns, my discord dms are open :)
In that case, I think you should openly out the person. I don't think you ought to, though, and it would probably be removed by staff.
Hm... maybe you're doing it sneakily like this to not get it removed? :P
I am talking to staff about the individual and they will do what they feel is proper. There’s no need dropping a name and causing unnecessary drama, they know who they are and they will get theirs. This is not my first rodeo with issues like this, the others occurring irl, so with all respect, will handle it as I see fit, not others :)
If by that you were referencing yourself, I’d agree ;) but my purpose in posting this is to let other ppl going through the same thing that they aren’t alone, that I get it, and I’m here for them, whether or not they rly know me. I don’t want bickering to detract from that v important message.
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