Comments on Profile Post by belac555

I have been violated mentally and emotionally and i am broken and this isn't something that can be fixed quickly

Also just finished prom was ok i danced with some girls including my exes best friend so that was fun

Aww :( It will take time, but I believe that you can make it through this. Better things will happen in the future, just keep going. :) As always, please send me a pm if there's anything you need.

I truly hope you heal quickly from this - if you ever wanna just chat, my inbox is always open or shoot me a discord

Would it be rude of me to ask what happened? I hope you're doing well man, you'll get through it.

Otus read through some of my old statuses

Oh hey its that cool dude from earlier!
I know nothing as far as I can tell on the whole dating non-sense. I don't look for it. I don't want to "date" someone. I want to gain a friend and trusted companion. Someone to stand by my side, and I to them.

All I know of that is this: Jesus always initiated on giving love to others. Some fought it. One became a trusted friend whom later betrayed him (to Jesus's death).

However, to those who returned that love (because to love someone is a choice and they can decide not to at any time) and put in the time to build a relationship with him, they were able to do amazing and great acts because of their love of and trust in God.

Summarized, the pain is awful. Wounds need healing, but if you are wanting to pursue relationships again, remember to love first but to never have an expectation for them to have to love back. Give them the option. If it fails, grieve, then get back at it.