Though I haven't read everything that has been posted on this thread I believe I can sum up everything with 2 words. Baby steps.
Thanks for all the feedback on this, Smooch and Aikar especially I understand what you mean, communities changing constantly but I guess it's just because ever since I joined EMC I've seen these people around the forums and in game talking to each other and to just watch most of them leave all at once... It's hard for me...