Its lagging so bad, I cant get into a sever. It says it has 54, I try to enter, 10 seconds later, sever is full...
Happens to me all the time, but I don't think a server reset is the solution, unless you mean add more slots...which will make the gameplay much laggier.
There is a small window where a player disconnects has time to reconnect. It'll show their slot is open, but they have a little time to reconnect in case the disconnect was not done on purpose.