Comments on Profile Post by BenCannoli

  1. Faithcaster
    Faithcaster
    Stay strong dude :)
    Feb 6, 2015
  2. Krysyy
    Krysyy
    I wish you luck. Let me know if you ever want to talk/vent to someone.
    Feb 6, 2015
  3. BenCannoli
    BenCannoli
    Hey thanks guys... It means a lot to me... Me and him, we had a fight. He overreacted to something stupid and now I'm paying for it... I wonder why he do that sometimes...
    Feb 6, 2015
  4. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    Remember that parents often do not understand kids, usually due to not knowing the entire situation. Parents have different responsibilities and have much experience behind their reasoning. What is seen as pushing around could be their way of 'motivating'. Ask yourself what this 'stupid' thing was, and why it is important enough for them to be angry about.
    Mar 9, 2015
  5. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    When they stop telling you what to do, worry much more. Sorry to hear you fought though.Stay like fluid and sway with the currents. Fighting solves nothing but fuels anger. Take a moment to try and understand why he over-reacted.
    Mar 9, 2015
  6. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    Agreements instead of fighting tends to help things. Of course, both parties need to be reasonable and also willing to both give and take, for it to work. Be sure to be willing to listen, and try to understand the situation. Being one sided is always the wrong approach.
    Mar 9, 2015
  7. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    Living on your own is hard unless you position yourself with a great job. As much as living on your own seems awesome, the thing most overlook is you become a slave to your job. Many I see bite off more than they can chew, and end up in financial pain. Not that I know your situation, but something to look out for.
    Mar 9, 2015
  8. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    Chin up merc! Someday you may reflect on days of the past and realize you will never have them again... good or bad. Time flys by so quickly you won't believe it. Good luck. I am always around if you ever need to PM me. While I may not be the best at suggestions, I have been through a lot of things in my life.
    Mar 9, 2015
  9. BenCannoli
    BenCannoli
    I would love to agree with you right now... But I don't really like my past... It's just full of messy stuff... My father preffers to drink a cup of alcohool instead of being with me... He didn't even showed up on my 18th Year Birthday...
    Mar 9, 2015
  10. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    You cannot help your past, however you can blaze a new path to your own future. Addiction is a horrible thing, and it has the power to destroy ‘good’ people. It is ashame that most never conquer their addictions, even when something important is on the line.
    Mar 9, 2015
  11. highlancer54
    highlancer54
    Don’t show hatred, show them pity. You will never understand them, so do not bother to try. You have a bright future man. Don’t focus on the failings of one person when others can and will appreciate you. Never give up. Gain strength through your struggles.
    Mar 9, 2015