Just letting some steam off

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous' started by xSkitzie, Nov 18, 2017.

  1. Sooooo as many of you know I am a professional hairstylist......I have been working in a private studio, where I pay monthly rent to be there.....Well out of the blue on Thursday, I was TEXTED, not called or asked to meet, but texted this would be best if it were my last month there. Worst part absolutely no explanation.....I am shocked, and devestated....Though I am doing my best to find a new location! It is just so stressful, having my husband who I love more than anything in this world, being very sick, having to see a specialists, and my daughter, and Christmas is right around the corner.....But I will push through! Sorry I threw up on you guys, but I have seen your words of encouragement and have appreciated them! Thank you all for you love and support! I will update as soon as I make my next step in my career!!
    Happy Thanksgiving!

    ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

    Skitz
  2. Hang in there, keeping my fingers crossed for you guys!

    And yeah, I agree, this sounds kinda bad :(
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  3. I don't know why, but to me it just seems that these types of scenarios are when God is up to something big. Be still and watch Him move.

    This passage came to mind: 1 Kings 19:11-13

    11 The Lord said, “Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.”
    Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave.
    Then a voice said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”

    Stand firm having done all to stand...Stand.

    Ephesians 6:13

    13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

    I am believing with you that things are going to work out for your benefit, and will continue to pray to such ends.

    Last passage...I was trying to find the verse that talks about opening the eyes of our understanding, and to my surprise when I looked it up it was in a section called Prayer and Thanksgiving. So here is that entire snippet that Paul admonishes the church with in his greeting to the Ephesians:

    Thanksgiving and Prayer

    I pray that God give you Wisdom and Revelation in this time of trial?...no...tribulation....No... Opportunity...yea, that's it... :) I am just writing what I hear.

    God Bless and turn that frown upside down...watch dread become expectations of what lies on the horizon.

    Yes, Proverbs 3:5-6 is also very applicable here.

    5. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not unto thine own understanding;
    6. Acknowledge Him in all thy ways, and He will direct your paths.

    KnightZer0ne
    Tempered Outpost Founder

    P.S. I am standing in faith with you in regards to the health of your husband too. I sense it may be something simple they are over-complicating, and this will be revealed to them from someone new. Yea, it is crazy to talk like this I suppose, but my faith is charged at the moment, and this is what I hear. Yes, lastly for real this time....remember the Joy of the Lord is your Strength, so I pray you are filled with unspeakable Joy as you laugh at the devil for there is an assurance that He will not forsake you.

    Deut. 31:6

    Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.
  4. Hey Skitz, good luck. I know something good will come of it in the end.
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  5. Ugh. That sucks, and that's an understatement. Have you asked for an explanation, though?

    Either way, good luck! :) We'll always be there for you, whether it's in fun times, or to let more steam off. ;)
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  6. Keep your chin up, it'll get back to normal and you and your fam will be alright.
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  7. Why can't you just ask why? They said 'it would be good if it was your last month here' not 'we're kicking you out, say bye-bye to your private studio'. If I read this wrong, best of luck finding a new location.
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  8. Good luck finding a new location! Don't give up no matter what!
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  9. Aww wut the....that sounds horrible - hope you find a new location and things go well with your mans health :(
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  10. Sorry this is happening but like KnightZerone said God has this under control just have faith.
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  11. I asked her numerous times for an explanation, all I got was I'm sorry.....However, she could in fact post some really crappy things on facebook directed at me....I commented on one and said, I can destroy you with screenshots of our text conversation....you want to go there? She deleted a bunch of these said posts.....Still no explanation.....I fell like something Big is going to happen as well, just waiting....So I have a few outlets I can plug into...Maybe its those opportunities I am suppose to be taking! Thank you all each and everyone of you for your kind words and encouragement!!!


    Skitz
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    xSkitzie, you are a great friend and jerks like those are probably lonely and salty. If you have the attitude that you were not the problem, and your boss was just jealous of your awesome life, then you will be back on your feet in no time!
  13. Update on the situation.....One of my closest friends and I will use that term loosely now, texted me and said I don't understand why you would do this.....(She works at the salon I used to work out we worked together there.) It was a picture of her bulletin board, someone had stuck tacks through her pictures, in her face and just in crude places, these tacks will ruin a pic as it leaves holes behind. Anyways she blamed me.......I was so shocked that she would think I would do something of this nature, which I didn't do.....Luckily, When I went and got my stuff from the salon, I took a witness.....So I even had her text my friend, seriously guys she said I told JoAnn, to forget it and let it go...Well here's the deal, I don't have to let anything go because I didn't do anything......God is working really hard.....He has brought much to light since I last posted....I have found many of these "friends" were snakes in the grass using me.....I feel better, but worse....I miss her my friend...we shared so much and I genuinely loved her as a friend....But this too shall pass....Anyways guys I am much better, tomorrow I go to talk to the owner of a high end salon and I am putting in an application to become an educator!!!! I am soooo excited! I know that doors are closing so these can open....Thank you all again for your kind words! <3<3

    Much love and many blessings!!
    Skitz
    (Oh you know my real name now lol, it is in fact JoAnn)
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